8 cups finely chopped cabbage (about 1 head)1/4 cup shredded carrot (1 medium carrot)2 tablespoons minced onion1/3 cup granulated sugar1/2 teaspoon salt1/8 teaspoon pepper1/4 cup milk1/2 cup mayonnaise1/4 cup buttermilk1 1/2 tablespoons white vinegar2 1/2 tablespoons lemon juice
1. Be sure cabbage and carrots are chopped up into very fine pieces (about the size of rice).
2. Combine the sugar, salt, pepper, milk, mayonnaise, buttermilk, vinegar, and lemon juice in a large bowl and beat until smooth.
3. Add the cabbage, carrots, and onion, and mix well.
4. Cover and refrigerate for at least 2 hours before serving.